Do Nuts - Donuts

Life is driving me crazy these days. Due to mom's condition, I am having a long break away from work, life and activities. I can't even step out of the house for a brief second. Everyday, besides preparing meals for the family and doing some basic household chores, I am literally doing nuts in the house.



Talking about doing nuts, I better feed on some good old Donuts, just to make sure I am okay being nutty. Thanks KH for the J.Co goodies.




A dozen of sweetness has just gone into my waistline!!!



Miss Green T using Macha Tea and Crunchy Crunchy with Cocopops



Hazel Dazzle and Snow White




Alcapone

I love the Coco Loco which is dark chocolate covering cream inside. Simply divine. My other favourite being their signature product, the Alcapone is white Belgian chocolate meets crunchy Californian Almonds. Yummilicious.


Somehow, I found myself missing the original soft large sugared fluffy ring donuts so much more than I miss these branded J.Co or Big Apple.

Ageing At Different Age

Yesterday, I came across one interesting article which I like to share. The article is about the different parts of our body age at different times:


We all accept that getting older is inevitable, and now leading clinicians have revealed the exact age when different body parts start to decline, most alarming being the brain and lungs.



French doctors have found that the quality of men's' sperm starts to deteriorate by 35, so that by the time a man is 45 a third of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Here, with the help of leading clinicians, Angela Epstein tells the Daily Mail the ages when different parts of the body start to lose their battle with time.



BRAIN - Starts ageing at 20. As we get older, the number of nerve cells - or neurons - in the brain decrease. We start with around 100 billion, but in our 20s this number starts to decline. By 40, we could be losing up to 10,000 per day, affecting memory, co-ordination and brain function.




GUT - Starts ageing at 55. A healthy gut has a good balance betwee harmful and 'friendly' bacteria. But levels of friendly bacteria in the gut drop significantly after 55, particularly in the large intestine, says Tom MacDonald, professor of immunology at Barts And The London medical school. As a result, we suffer from poor digestion and an increased risk of gut disease. Constipation is more likely as we age, as the flow of digestive juices from the stomach, liver, pancreas and small intestine slows down.


BREASTS - Start ageing at 35. By their mid-30s, women's breasts start losing tissue and fat, reducing size and fullness. Sagging starts properly at 40 and the areola(the area surrounding the nipple) can shrink considerably.


BLADDER - Starts ageing at 65. Loss of bladder control is more likely when you hit 65. Women are more vulnerable to bladder problems as, after the menopause, declining oestrogen levels make tissues in the urethra - the tube through which urine passes - thinner and weaker, reducing bladder support. Bladder capacity in an older adult generally is about half that of a younger person - about two cups in a 30-year-old and one cup in a 70-year-old.


LUNGS - Start ageing at 20. Lung capacity slowly starts to decrease from the age of 20. By the age of 40, some people are already experiencing breathlessness. This is partly because the muscles and the rib cage which control breathing stiffen up.


VOICE - Starts ageing at 65. Our voices become quieter and hoarser with age. The soft tissues in the voice box (larynx) weaken, affecting the pitch, loudness and quality of the voice. A woman's voice may become huskier and lower in pitch, whereas a man's might become thinner and higher.


EYES - Start ageing at 40. Glasses are the norm for many over-40s as failing eyesight kicks in - usually long-sightedness, affecting our ability to see objects up close.

HEART - Starts ageing at 40. The heart pumps blood less effectively around the body as we get older. This is because blood vessels become less elastic, while arteries can harden or become blocked because of fatty deposits forming on the coronary arteries - caused by eating too much saturated fat. The blood supply to the heart is then reduced, resulting in painful angina. Men over 45 and women over 55 are at greater risk of a heart attack.


LIVER - Starts ageing at 70. This is the only organ in the body which seems to defy the aging process.


KIDNEYS - Starts ageing at 50. With kidneys, the number of filtering units (nephrons) that remove waste from the bloodstream starts to reduce in middle age.


PROSTATE - Starts ageing at 50. The prostate often becomes enlarged with age, leading to problems such as increased need to urinate, says Professor Roger Kirby, director of the Prostate Centre in London . This is known as benign prostatic hyperplasia and affects half of men over 50, but rarely those under 40. It occurs when the prostate absorbs large amounts of the male sex hormone testosterone, which increases the growth of cells in the prostate. A normal prostate is the size of a walnut, but the condition can increase this to the size of a tangerine.


BONES - Start ageing at 35. Throughout our life, old bone is broken down by cells called osteoclasts and replaced by bone-building cells called osteoblasts - a process called bone turnover,' explains Robert Moots, professor of rheumatology at Aintree University Hospital in Liverpool . Children's bone growth is rapid - the skeleton takes just two years to renewitself completely. In adults, this can take ten years. Until our mid-20s, bone density is still increasing. But at 35 bone loss begins as part of the natural ageing process.


TEETH - Start ageing at 40. As we age, we produce less saliva, which washes away bacteria, so teeth and gums are more vulnerable to decay. Receding gums - when tissue is lost from gums around the teeth - is common in adults over 40.


MUSCLES - Start ageing at 30. Muscle is constantly being built up and broken down, a process which is well balanced in young adults. However, by the time we're 30, breakdown is greater than buildup, explains Professor Robert Moots. Once adults reach 40, they start to lose between 0.5 and 2 per cent of their muscle each year. Regular exercise can help prevent this.


HEARING - Starts ageing mid-50s. More than half of people over 60 lose hearing because of their age, according to the Royal National Institute for the Deaf.


SKIN - Starts ageing mid-20s. The skin starts to age naturally in your mid-20s.


TASTE AND SMELL - Start ageing at 60. We start out in life with about 10,000 taste buds scattered on the tongue. This number can halve later in life. After we turn 60, taste and smell gradually decline, partly as a result of the normal ageing process.


FERTILITY - Starts ageing at 35. Female fertility begins to decline after 35, as the number and quality of eggs in the ovaries start to fall. The lining of the womb may become thinner, making it less likely for a fertilised egg to take, and also creating an environment hostile to sperm.


HAIR - Starts ageing at 30. Male hair loss usually begins in the 30s. Hair is made in tiny pouches just under the skin's surface, known as follices. A hair normally grows from each follicle for about three years, is then shed, and a new hair grows. Most people will have some grey hair by the age of 35. When we are young, our hair is coloured by the pigments produced by cells in the hair follicle known as melanocytes.


Aunty KH's Birthday Celebration

The kids are having their one week Hari Raya break. Since we can't go anywhere with Mom being immobile, we managed to persuade Aunty KH to come and stay with us. That day happened to be her birthday and we gave her a surprise little celebration at home.


My kids requested for steamboat. So, I went to Jusco and loaded the trolley with lots of vegetables, prawns, mussels, beef, chicken, fish balls, wanton skin, all kinds of mushrooms, etc. I have also grabbed a chocolate mousse cake from the bakery.


I have made two soup base for the steamboat. Miso soup is the kids' favourite. The second one being chicken, tomato and preserved vegetables soup, of which I got the inspiration from the Hong Kong drama series 家好月圆, where 阿好 and 于素秋 always go for tomatoes and pork ribs soup base steamboat. Literally everyone round the table was hooked on my speciality dipping sauce made of chinese fermented beancurd, yummy!





















Mom In Pain


I'm back, after disappearing for almost three weeks.

On the morning of Saturday 30/8, my mom was found lying in severe pain on her bedroom floor apparently resulted from a fall. My relatives carefully moved her downstairs and whizzed her to Fatimah Hospital. I was in the midst of a meeting when I received the phone call from Ipoh, I nearly keel over in shock. I quickly made some arrangements and picked up my girl from school and rocketed back to Ipoh.

When we reached Ipoh, x-ray has been taken and the orthopaedic specialist has already examined my mom. According to the orthopaedic specialist, eventhough mom has only sustained a somewhat trivial fall, she with her osteoporosis bone weakening, has had a femoral neck fracture, or in simple term, a hip fracture.

Well, let me elaborate: The hip joint is a ball and socket joint. The socket part is formed by a cup in the pelvis, called the acetabulum. The ball part of the joint is the head of the thighbone, called the head of femur. The top part of the thighbone, just below the head, is called the neck of the femur. Mom's fracture was just below the ball, on the neck of the femur.



(photos by A.D.A.M)

The only treatment is by operation. Taking into consideration of her weak bone density and her age, a Hip Hemiarthtoplasty was recommended by the orthopaedic specialist. Hip Hemiarthroplasty is simply a partial hip replacement. In this procedure, the head (the ball of the ball-and-socket joint) and the fractured femoral neck are removed and replaced with a smooth metal sphere on a metal stem (a metal prosthesis). The stem is inserted into the centre of the thighbone's shaft and usually cemented in place. In mom's case, her socket was still intact and was to be left alone.




(Photos by MMG)

At the first instance, I was a bit skeptical about the operation, considering mom is already 83 years old. However, the orthopaedic specialist advised that by replacing the damaged section of hip with a hemiarthroplasty can quickly get her out of bed and moving to reduce the risk of complications. As the orthopaedic specialist has no qualms about mom's age and conditions, somemore the man is in fact one of the top orthopaedic surgeon in Ipoh, I signed the consent letter, praying hard for the best.

An immediate operation was not possible due to the age of my mom as other tests needed to be carried out to ensure no other complications. Coincidentally, the following two days happened to be a non-working day due to the National Day and the replacement holiday, the operation was scheduled on Tuesday 2/9. A weight-and-pulley system was set up and attached to the leg with tapes. According to the nurse, this process (traction) helps to reduce pain before the operation.

On 2/9, 1.15pm, mom was wheeled into the operating theatre. Prior to this, I have learnt from the orthopaedic surgeon that the operation normally takes 45mins to an hour plus a stabilizing and recovering period of two/three hours. Nerve-wrecking wait outside the operating theatre. By 4.30pm, mom was wheeled out and back to her ward. Thank God that the operation was successful! The operation was performed under a spinal anaesthetic, so it was not that bad. A small incision about 4 inch was made on the outside of the thigh.

After awakening from the anaesthetic, a drip tube for giving fluid was inserted in one of mom's arm veins. Plastic drainage tubes are left in the wound at the end of surgery and are brought out through the skin, so that blood and other fluids can drain away harmlessly. A catheter tube was inserted into the bladder to pass out urine. After surgery, mom's wound was covered with a padded dressing. A triangle-shaped cushion was positioned between mom's legs to keep her legs from crossing or rolling in. Mom felt drowsy but could not sleep due to severe pain after the anaesthetic died off. Eventually we had to request for an injection as opposed the prescribed pain-killing tablets.

Rehabilitation begun soon after in the hospital. One and a half days after the surgery, mom was able to put comfortable weight down on her affected leg. The physhio-therapist helped mom move from the bed to a chair and walked a short distance using walking aids.

With satisfying progress, mom was discharged on Monday 8/9, six days after her operation. We have moved mom's bed to the guest room downstairs. Josh happened to have a few days break due to the UPSR candidates utilising his classroom, I got him to stay in Ipoh with me.

On Thursday 11/9, we returned to KL with mom. Considering mom will be so immobile, I decided to bring her to KL to stay with us and I will look after her full time.

Mom is recovering well. She is walking short distance with the aid of a quadripod walking frame. Her stitches have been removed this week and dressing was no longer required. However, her intake of food worries me. She keeps saying that since she is not actively moving around, merely sitting in the reclining chair resulted in her poor appetite.

The last few weeks have totally exhausted me. All these years, I sleep like a piggy. Even with two kids, I never have the 'privilege' of waking up middle of the night for my kids night feeding. But now, I have to wake up few times in the night coz mom has a weak bladder. The initial days were tough, but I am now used to this funny sleeping pattern...zzz...zzz


It's Strawberries' Time

Bought some strawberries and got them posed for me.





Sharp and bright red




Voluptuous


Juicy


Bring out the taste of my homemade sour plum sorbet







Accompanied my girl's strawberry milk






A dress-up for the boring doughnut


Garnishing for my corned beef fried rice wrap/omelette



A Silver

I haven't posted for quite a while coz we went back to Ipoh as the kids started their one-week school break. Trying to get internet access in Ipoh is always a nightmare, that's why I didn't even bother to bring along my laptop.

It was an easy and totally relaxing week for me. No internet, no emails, no work, no calls (coz I off my handphones), lots of good hawker food, 11 channels of Olympics coverage, Astro-On-Demand, etc. As the kids' final term exams is coming, I also spent time helping them with their studies.

So, Beijing 2008, Badminton events. We ended up with a silver medal. It was sad to watch Chong Wei being slaughtered by Lin Dan in the gold medal match. Lin Dan was made to look awesome by an ordinary Chong Wei. All along I rated the two: skills wise, techniques wise, stamina wise, the two are at par. But, mental and temperament wise, Chong Wei is weaker. Or should I say, pressure is Lin Dan's middle name.




That match, Chong Wei was completely outclassed in all departments and could not match both Lin Dan's furious pace and the Chinese overwhelming support.

Overall, Chong Wei played well. But Lin Dan played two levels better.

Well, that's life. Ups, downs, win, lose, is normal. That's what make sports interesting.

Congrats to Chong Wei, a silver is still better than none. You've made us proud.


Well Done

The Olympic Badminton matches are being held in the Beijing University of Technology Gymnasium.













(Photos : courtesy of members of BadmintonCentral)

Isn't this shuttle holder cute?


Eventhough I was busy with work in the office, but I still couldn't stop myself following the results of the Olympic Badminton matches online.


A late morning match when Lee Chong Wei played against Ronald Susilo from Singapore who is better known as the black horse who sent Lin Dan packing during the Athens Olympics 2004.


The result : Chong Wei beat Susilo in straight sets. It is a joke for anyone who thinks Susilo would be able to repeat the history of Athens. Brilliant drop shots and net play by Chong Wei and his smashes are getting sharper and sharper, especially his sideline smashes are deadly and very accurate near the line.

In the evening, our Wong Choong Han played against the Athens gold medalist Taufik from Indonesia who is recovering from dengue fever. This pic was taken when he stepped foot on Beijing Airport, he looked haggard.





The result: Taufik was dethroned as the Olympic champion! A superb 21-19, 21-16 win by our Choong Han. Congrats to Choong Han but also felt sorry for Taufik. Taufik had just recovered from dengue fever, did not put up a quality play, it was only 60-70% of his full potential. But all praise to Choong Han as he has managed to break his mental barrier. He did not look the least bit intimidated by the Olympic champion during the encounter.


Choong Han was on fire today, possessed! He was as fit as he can, well prepared, went on the offensive right from the start but at the same time showed great improvement in his defence. This certainly will give him confidence in advancing to the next round. I was jumping in joy and hope Choong Han will grab at least a bronze medal.


Lin Dan beat Ng Wei from Hong Kong.

Bao Chun Lai beat Kevin Cordon from Guatemala. This young Kevin is something, has great potential.

Our Malaysian shuttlers have done extremely well today. More exciting days ahead.

See who was spotted among the spectators at the Stadium?




Yeap. Mr. Bill Gates and wife, enjoying a Badminton match.